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Do you know what a non negotiation is?
For this post in particular, it’s what I refer to as the things in whatever aspect of your life that HAS to be done, no excuses, NO NEGOTIATIONS.
Do you have anything like that?
Now, I’m not talking about the laws of the land … but they’re similar.
To succeed in something you have never done before, you must do something you have never done before.
You must be constantly learning, or else you will become stagnant and begin to wither away …
You must constantly strive to improve yourself, or you will always be as you always were …
I was listening to an audio from my inner circle (check out the presentation below for more information) and the audio I heard today was a personal development audio that not only helped me pinpoint some weak spots in my business plan, it hit me with the cold, hard, truth that I had allowed negotiations amongst my non negotiables.
Today’s audio really struck home … because I pride myself on having integrity.
That’s doing the things I say I’m going to do, no matter what – NO EXCUSES!
But then I’m tired …
Or I have work to do …
Or a business to run …
Or I want to spend time with …………..
…………………. you get the picture.
I find negotiations for not doing my non negotiables.
But we have big dreams and aspirations! And why not? The world is our oyster …
Only problem is we don’t have the tools to open it. And why’s that?
Because we don’t have non negotiables.
We don’t study about the thing we’re interested in. We don’t take action after going to that seminar that taught us x, y, and z about investing …
We don’t do what we say we’re going to do.
But that’s it! NO more!
You’re with me, right?
AWESOME! Then here’s my list of NON NEGOTIABLES:
- Always smile when talking to someone!
- Do my daily discipline of either listening to 30 minutes of an audio or 10 pages of a book that will teach me enhancements to my life, health, and wealth
- Learn something new DAILY
While that list is super short … I’m taking action and focusing on what’s important – daily disciplines that will bring me closer to my current goals!
“If you don’t have ‘always’, you’ll end up with ‘nevers’.” – Grant Cardone
Imagine if you had a non negotiable where what you say goes. No excuses.
Would you live life with more urgency? You only have 24 hours in a day – and some of that is spent eating and sleeping.
When you make the decision to succeed, to win – you must manage that decision daily.
And if you don’t?
Your day will become managed for you. And the things you dream about, the lifestyle you want to lead?
It will slowly slip out of your hands and stay in the back of your mind instead of within your reality.
If you don’t respect yourself, you won’t go through with your own non negotiables.
You must attach massive pain to whenever you don’t do what you set out to do. Otherwise, it becomes negotiable.
Establish borders or “laws” in your life so you don’t violate them, which in turn is a violation against yourself.
What would life look life with several, consistent non negotiables? How much faster would you have what you want?
Don’t give up your non negotiables, b/c you will prolong or hinder seeing your timely success.
This is about YOU being able to take actions to see the success you’ve longed for.
If you don’t have non negotiables, you are not doing anything intentional about your success.
Take action IMMEDIATELY should be a non negotiable.
Listen to audios daily that will help you progress in your goals.
Read daily those books that will provide the knowledge to achieve your dreams …
Allow yourself to become the person you need to be in oder to achieve the goals and ambitions you have for yourself!
What are the non-negotiables in your life? – write them down!
Our body operates under laws. If it didn’t, things wouldn’t function properly. So why not take that same idea and apply it to the rest of our lives?
Only difference between people who are more successful than us is that our routines and what we do daily differs.
Your reality is a reflection of your routine. So if you’re not pleased with your current reality, lifestyle, or money situation, all you have to do is change the routine that is giving you your reality.
Have your routine SERVE you instead of work against you.
How much would it cost you if you don’t have these? Feel the pain!
You are worth a lot more than anyone has ever told you.
You will never see what you’re worth unless you figure out your purpose.
(A higher calling!)
If you STAND for nothing, you fall for anything.
The longer you continue to fall for anything? The longer you are going to NEVER see the things that you want.
Write down your non negotiables.
You deserve to be honoring certain things in your life … What are they? What’s stopping you from honoring them?
Do what others don’t want to do. If you’re in business, you believe you are worthy of better things.
You have to first understand that in order to live the life that you want, there’s a certain type of person that GETS to live that type of life. There’s attributes/qualities you need to obtain so you can become that person. It’s through that person that you can step into that life.
You should have non negotiables for EVERYTHING in your life!
What are your non negotiations? Leave a comment below!